who needs someone else. be alone and be happy by yourself. we create our own happiness, other people do not create it for us. other people simply create hassle, pain, anger, and pleasure, they don’t create happiness. be happy alone, if someone comes along that is worth the effort, let them instill companionship and pleasure, but don’t depend on them, don’t seem needy, don’t seem wanting. seem happy, seem like you are ok without them…seem like you only allow them around because you have a good time together. do not let them feel they make you happy, or they then have a power over you which you do not need. be happy alone.