my weekly epiphany for all those in desperate relationships… if your significant other says to you “i just don’t know what i want right now and i just need space” then they are OBVIOUSLY not content enough or committed enough to say “i want YOU.” if they “don’t know what they want” then you have become something “unwanted” because if you were the object that was wanted, no one would have to say “i don’t know what i want.” try thinking about this…we use it every day in life. what do i want to eat? i dunno, but i KNOW i don’t want pizza… so ok, we have a clear grasp of what we WANT, and if we don’t, then we are too fickle and reckless to believe that a stable relationship will hold if someone can’t admit that they want you. it’s a petty copout to say “i don’t know what i want” because all it means is that “i want to have you around and also i want to have my options open for when something that i perceive as better comes along.” stop being ignorant and blind, people.