another excerpt from the book “he’s just not that into you” so ladies, pay attention. i’ve told most of you this too, so now you don’t have to just take my word for it. — Do you think a bad guy can change into a good guy, within a relationship? I’m loath to say this to someone who might be coming from an unhappy situation and is wanting me to validate it. I believe that anything is possible. However, my experience has been that most men do not change, and the ones I’ve seen change only changed when they met new women.