ok, i just finished the book, “he’s just not that into you,” and everyone needs to read it. well, especially women. it was written by greg behrendt and liz tuccillo and is around $14. women, it will change your perspective of guys and how they act…and i can only hope that you girls will BELIEVE what is said. men…well, if you’re an asshole, you’re still gonna be an asshole but hopefully girls will catch on and tell you to fuck off. it really made me think about some of the things i’ve done, i can relate to a few of the actions of the guys, and i guess i’m realizing maybe i should be honest if i’m “just not that into” someone. i shouldn’t hide it or lie about it. anyway…i also like how he mentioned “love as the verb, not the noun” in his remarks…”love” someone, don’t just HAVE love. big difference ladies…does your guy “love” you or simply love you… sure sure, i cant repeat everything from the book, just go freakin read it. my fav part of course…was from one of the little summaries dealing with “weird” guys that are supposed to be the exception…that are “nice at home and mean in public” or “dont like to cuddle after sex” or whatever, all the quirky things. the little summary was: It’s So Simple ——————— There’s a difference between eccentric and insane. “eccentric” will sometimes wear a velvet jacket. “insane” will only have sex with you when wearing it. There’s a difference between teasing and abuse. Teasing is “Bjork called. She wants her dress back.” Abuse is “boy, are you getting FAT.” But the biggest difference is you. you all are ultimately better than the treatment you are receiving from these men. ———————- ok…i really like the velvet jacket thing…reminds me of something i was told about me “wearing fur coats and eyeliner….” that’s why i title my “dating profiles” as Eccentricity Extreme…think about that one.