I asked for the opposite of you, I got what I asked for..another me. … I’ve decided this must be how it is for me. If there is a soulmate out there for me, someone must have stolen him, as I am engaged to someone elses. Isn’t that a scary thought? Just as I am holding onto someone elses soulmate, in a desperate hope he will change into mine, my real soul mate might be out there unhappily married to another. Scary thought?