i’ll let you slide for one more day. ever felt 2nd best? i’m sure you have, we all do at some point. you wonder what you have to offer compared to others, you wonder what someone has that is better than you. does it make you arrogant to think you offer more? does it make you self-loathing to think you offer less? does one of you really win or does one of you really lose? perhaps nothing happens, perhaps nothing changes. you all have your free will, you all have your ability to make decisions for yourselves. no one is worth losing sleep over, no one is worth missing work for, no one is worth readjustment of your life to please them. oh well. not my loss, simply theirs. i am the one to be deserved. they deserve me, i don’t deserve them. keep this in mind, all of you, be above the stereotypes and images and even the judgements. it isn’t worth the time.