could someone please explain something to me…anyone feel free to comment…if, while in a relationship, one of the parties goes out of town for a few days and right before said party goes out of town a significant fight or disagreement happens. now, the party that goes out of town then makes several comments about calling party #2 the next day (before leaving) and assures that party #1 will make that call. party #2 then leaves abruptly while ignoring most all comments of party #2, and party#1 gives no chase to stop party#2 from leaving while angry and upset. as party#2 is driving home, party#1 calls and apologizes more and they talk for a span of time, and again explains that a phone call will be made and that they want to see party#2 upon their return. now, the next day comes and goes with no phone call from party#1, as does day 2, and then day 3 with no contact. finally party#2 breaks down and calls party#1 about 4 hours after they were due back, and party#1 gives the excuse “oh i thought we were done and i thought you broke up with me so i didn’t bother calling. i figured you’d have taken the things you left here and that was all.” of course, those things were still there, and yet still no phone call. now…give me opinions please…anything further from the conversation was simply made in excuse, i think the major point stopped with that statement. my viewpoint of this situation would be that obviously party#1 was willing to give up and not even make an attempt to chase party#2 for any reason. there was no attempt to “win them back” or act like the relationship was even of any importance to retain or repair…and by lack of action like this it would appear that party#1 REALLY just doesn’t give a shit about party#2 and could have cared less if they were gone or not. input please….